A foundation of trust & safety
Real connection is impossible without trust. Safety is not a feature we shipped later. It is the first thing every user runs into.
No catfishing, ever
Before anyone can interact, they pass a one-time live selfie check that has to match their photos. It confirms in real time that the person behind the profile is real. Fake photos get you banned on sight.
- Live selfie liveness check
- Optional ID verification for extra assurance
- No bots, no catfish, no unicorn hunters
You are in total control
Your privacy, your rules. Message requests put you in charge of who can start a conversation. Stealth browsing makes you invisible when you need a break. And you can block or report anyone, at any time.
- Message requests screen who reaches you
- Stealth browsing when you want privacy
- Block and report anyone, instantly
Real people, plus AI that stays home
Our safety net does not stop at algorithms. Reports get a real human review, and profile photos are moderated against our community guidelines. The AI behind it is open-source and runs locally in the Bay Area, so your data is never sold to Google, Meta, Microsoft, or anyone else.
- Human review of every report
- Photo moderation against clear guidelines
- Open-source AI, run locally, nothing sold
Unlimited blocking
Block unwanted interactions instantly. No limits, no questions asked.
Stealth browsing
Look around privately. Others will not see that you viewed them.
Report & appeals
Report bad behavior in seconds. Every report is reviewed by a real person.
Message requests
You decide who can start a conversation with you.
Shake to report
Shake your phone to flag a bug or a problem on the spot.
AI that stays home
Moderation runs on open-source AI locally in the Bay Area. Nothing is sold to Google, Meta, or anyone.
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