A foundation of trust & safety
Real connection is impossible without trust. Safety is not a feature we shipped later. It is the first thing every user runs into.
Zero tolerance for catfishing
Before anyone can interact, they pass a one-time live selfie check that has to match their photos. It confirms in real time that the person behind the profile is real. Fake photos get you banned on sight.
- Live selfie liveness check
- A real person reviews it if the automatic check cannot confirm you
- No bots, no cis men, no unicorn hunters
You are in total control
Your privacy, your rules. Message requests put you in charge of who can start a conversation. Stealth browsing makes you invisible when you need a break. And you can block or report anyone, at any time.
- Message requests screen who reaches you
- Stealth browsing when you want privacy
- Block and report anyone, instantly
Real people, plus AI that stays home
Our safety net does not stop at algorithms. Reports get a real human review, and profile photos are moderated against our community guidelines. The AI behind it is open source and runs on our own hardware in the Bay Area. Your verification selfie is never sent to Google, Meta, Microsoft, OpenAI, or any other AI company, and we never sell your data.
- Human review of every report
- Photo moderation against clear guidelines
- Face scans never go to Big Tech AI, and nothing is sold
Unlimited blocking
Block unwanted interactions instantly. No limits, no questions asked.
Stealth browsing
Look around privately. Others will not see that you viewed them.
Report & appeals
Report bad behavior in seconds. Every report is reviewed by a real person.
Message requests
You decide who can start a conversation with you.
Shake to report
Shake your phone to flag a bug or a problem on the spot.
Your face scan stays home
Your verification selfie is checked by open-source AI on our own hardware in the Bay Area, never by Google, Meta, or OpenAI. We never sell your data.
Ready to find your connection?
Join the 7,600+ sapphic women and non-binary people who've signed up. No one can message until they're verified.