Help someone find her.
LezFindr doesn't buy its community — it grows because women and nonbinary folks tell each other about it. Every friend you bring makes the app better for everyone: more people to meet, more events worth going to, more of the community in one place.
Your referral code is the whole move
It's in the app — open your profile and tap Invite friends. Friends who join with your code get a welcome perk, and every one of them who gets verified counts toward your monthly total.
Verified is the bar on purpose: real referrals mean real community members, not downloads.
Say why. That's the whole strategy.
The most convincing thing you can share isn't a link — it's what you actually love about being here and why you want to see this community grow. Maybe it's that everyone's verified. Maybe it's the events. Maybe it's just that it finally feels like yours. Say that, in your own words, where your people already are.
Where it lands
Your group chats
The queer group chat is undefeated. One honest message about why you’re here beats any ad.
Your servers & communities
Discord servers, campus groups, queer sports leagues, book clubs — wherever your people already are.
Your stories
An Instagram or TikTok story with your code reaches exactly the people who already trust you.
The events you go to
At the function? That’s the pitch. “It’s how I found this event” sells itself.
🔍 A word about Reddit (and anywhere with rules)
Reddit is where honest recommendations carry the most weight — and where drive-by promo gets removed fastest. Be part of communities you actually belong to. When someone asks “is there a dating app that isn't awful?” — and someone always asks — that's your moment, in your own words.
Some communities don't allow referral links at all. Respect that completely: share your experience and the app's name, skip the code. If you do share a code, say it's yours. Growing the community honestly is the point — the code is just a thank-you.
Top referrers win Premium. Every month.
- 🏆 #1 referrer each month: 3 months of LezFindr Premium
- 🥈 #2 and #3: 1 month of Premium each
- ✅ A referral counts when your friend joins with your code and gets verified
- 📅 Counts reset on the 1st — every month is a fresh race
- 🎯 Minimum 3 verified referrals to place
No public leaderboard, on purpose — we never publish who's on LezFindr. Winners get the good news (and the Premium) inside the app on the 1st.
Not on LezFindr yet?
Start here. Then come back and bring your people.